
Podcast by Dr. Rob Ramseyer
Podcast by Dr. Rob Ramseyer
01 April 2025
In this episode of Beyond Coaching, Rob welcomes back Mitch Hull from the 3D Institute for a follow-up discussion to the popular episode, Does Winning Matter? This conversation dives deep into the tension between winning, success, and significance in coaching, athletics, and life. Mitch shares insights from his own Olympic journey, stories from elite athletes, and practical advice for coaches on building meaningful relationships and fostering long-term impact.
✅ The difference between winning and significance – why winning matters but isn’t everything
✅ Mitch’s personal journey, including Olympic trials, setbacks, and lessons learned
✅ The post-Olympic depression phenomenon and why athletes struggle with identity
✅ The role of faith and personal purpose in navigating competition
✅ How goal-driven individuals can balance ambition with fulfillment
✅ The success vs. significance framework for coaching and leadership
✅ Why building relationships is the foundation of impactful coaching
✅ Practical tips for coaches looking to lead with purpose
🗣️ “Most of us end our careers on a loss. But that doesn’t make us failures.” – Mitch Hull
🗣️ “Winning is important, but it can never be ultimate.” – Mitch Hull
🗣️ “Success is about goals. Significance is about purpose.” – Mitch Hull
🗣️ “It’s hard to be significant and not be successful. But you can be successful and never be significant.” – Mitch Hull
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18 March 2025
In this podcast short, we discuss one of the most common mistakes coaches make—talking too much after games. Post-game talks often happen in highly emotional moments, and saying the wrong thing can damage trust, hurt team culture, and ultimately be ineffective.
We cover:
We also share real coaching stories, including mistakes we’ve made, and practical tips to improve post-game talks immediately.
Quote from the Episode:
"Less is more. If you're too emotional, wait. If it's important, address it at practice."
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07 March 2025
In this episode of Beyond Coaching, we sit down with Colonel James Cheatham, a 30-year educator, football coach, and Oklahoma Air National Guard officer. Colonel Cheatham shares his unique journey through coaching and leadership, discussing his time as a head football coach, a junior college defensive coordinator, and his transition into full-time military service.
The conversation dives deep into:
Colonel Cheatham also shares his thoughts on the role of data in coaching, the need for purposeful leadership training, and how coaches can create environments that foster resilience and accountability.
“Talk less, rep more. You don’t talk a player into being better—you train them into it.”
"Coaches must be purposeful in leadership training—it can’t be left to chance.”
"We need fewer marshmallows. Mental and emotional resilience are just as important as physical toughness.”
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04 March 2025
We're diving into a thought-provoking question from one of our first paid Substack subscribers: Does winning really matter? It’s a loaded question, and we tackle it head-on—exploring the balance between success, growth, and the process of improvement. Can two teams have equally meaningful experiences, even if one wins more? Is winning the ultimate goal, or is the pursuit of excellence what truly counts?
From personal coaching experiences to reflections on legendary figures like Gino Auriemma, we break down what winning means at different levels of competition. Plus, we share insights from our ongoing research on motivation—surprisingly, winning isn’t always the primary driver for athletes. Tune in for a candid discussion on the value of winning, how to define success beyond the scoreboard, and why the process might matter more than the outcome.
Episode Highlights:
[1:15] - The key question: Does winning matter?
[3:40] - How winning influences team culture and buy-in
[7:25] - The challenge of defining success beyond wins and losses
[12:10] - Personal coaching lessons: finding small wins within the game
[17:00] - What research says about motivation—why winning isn’t the top priority for athletes
[21:45] - The Gino Auriemma story: shifting the focus from championships to daily improvement
[27:30] - Balancing recognition and staying process-oriented
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28 February 2025
In this episode of Beyond Coaching, we sit down with Joey Reinart, Athletic Director and Assistant Principal at Tonkawa High School in Oklahoma. Joey shares his journey from volunteer coaching little league baseball to leading transformational change as a head football coach and now as an athletic director.
Joey dives into how he built a championship culture at Chisholm High School, turning a struggling football program into a thriving, multi-sport powerhouse. He explains how investing in kids beyond the field, building trust with parents, and fostering cross-sport collaboration created an environment where student-athletes could excel.
Joey’s passion for coaching the whole person shines through as he shares practical strategies for building relationships, developing leadership, and creating sustainable success in athletics.
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21 February 2025
In this episode of Beyond Coaching, Rob is joined by Troy Black and Dylan Heath, two experienced coaches working with junior high and high school athletes at Wichita (KS) Collegiate School. They discuss the evolving landscape of youth sports, from fostering a fun and engaging environment to managing competitive expectations. The conversation explores building successful programs, balancing parent involvement, and coaching the modern athlete in an era dominated by club sports and social pressures.
Key Topics Discussed:
✔️ Building Programs That Last – How strong mentorship and leadership shape youth athletic programs.
✔️ The Fun vs. Competitive Drive Debate – How to keep kids engaged while fostering a winning mindset.
✔️ The Role of Parents in Youth Sports – The pros and cons of early specialization and club sports culture.
✔️ Developing Athletes Beyond the Game – How sports teach resilience, patience, and teamwork.
✔️ Motivating Today’s Athletes – Insights into what truly drives young athletes to compete.
Memorable Quotes:
📢 "If kids know you care about them as people first, they’ll do almost anything for you." – Troy Black
📢 "We want kids to have fun, develop skills, and love the game. The competitive side comes later." – Dylan Heath
Rapid Fire Round Highlights:
📚 Book Recommendation: There’s Only One Way to Win by Vince Lombardi
🏆 Defining Success: Seeing former athletes return and staying connected after their playing days.
📖 New Habit: Reading more coaching and leadership books to improve as a mentor.
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Beyond Coaching is a podcast by the Impactful Coaching Project, in partnership with Friends University. Our mission is to help coaches develop 21st-century athletes by focusing on leadership, personal growth, and impactful coaching strategies.
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